The Honest Date Test

How Strong is your Relationship

What's Your Intimacy IQ

What's Your Intimacy IQ

Do you really know what intimacy is (before reading Avoiding Capture)? Is it about intimate communication, sexual compatibility, handling relationship conflict well or just having a successful relationship?

It's likely that your definition of this greatly misunderstood term lacks a few key elements, which can lead you in the wrong direction as you seek to create your lasting love connection.

So here's a little quiz:

1 - Your perfect partner is someone very much like you. (YIPES!)




2- When you meet the "one" for you, you will know it. Trumpets will be sounding near and far!




3 - Conflict in a relationship is a sign that a couple is not compatible and will have difficulty making it last.




4 - You two have many different values but are good at compromising and negotiation; so this will not be a big obstacle.




5 - Trust in a relationship means that the other person will not hurt or seriously disappoint you.




6 - My partner has a lot of fears around commitment, but he/she loves me a lot and so this can be easily worked out, especially if they read Avoiding Capture.




7 - Our sex life is not too good but I know this will get better over time. Maybe I'll ask David for advise!




8 - He/she is so jealous and attached to me; I know he/ she loves me a lot (ouch!).




9 - Whatever problems we have can be worked out if I love him/ her enough and I am willing to work hard to fix it.




10 - If two people can communicate well, they can understand each other well.




11 - Men marry for sex and women marry for security.




12 - Respect is present in a relationship when the partners are in agreement with each other and support each other's views.